Want to wear a dress but worried that it's a sex thing? Consider the fact that society has chosen to attach horniness to the act of wearing a dress. Want to experiment with masculine forms of address but worried that you're just grabbing at respect and power? Consider that society has chosen to give an unfair amount of those to men. None of this is your fault. It is not your responsibility to purify your motivations in a world that insists on muddling together the meaning of everything.
