generation

ally, zen*, cornetto

  • she/her

*pref if not acquainted
otf
21, sapphic
generation on quotev, cardfight on discord
qpp: @sinnohan, bff: @veludo

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heavens i’m sorry ally i get what this is like :( i hope you meet someone who you vibe with more!!! if there’s anyone you really resonate w more in convo u can ask them to hang out one on one maybe or if theyd like to spend lunch w u? it isnt weird or anything i promise all of u guys are in a new environment and probably looking to make new connections if possible. i love u and ur awesome im so sorry youre feeling alone and i hope u meet someone w ur interests that u vibe with cuz just saying….. they’d be making one banger friend right here…..

thank you mou ;( the one girl that tries to talk to me more is like the only one i somewhat resonate with rn i’m just worried b/c so far all the stuff we do is on a group basis… even on a smaller lvl she and i and one other girl are like, a trio of sorts b/c we’re all on the same team, but i don’t connect w the other girl quite as much (even tho i still get along with her)/sometimes feel like a thirdwheel when i’m hanging out with Both of them T_T but i don’t want it to look like i’m singling her out/trying to exclude the other girl or other ppl etc i especially don’t want her to get the idea i’m latching onto her cuz she can obviously tell i’m having a hard time integrating myself/talking to ppl… IDK sorry this got long but yeah i’m worried to step out of bounds or come off the wrong way 😭

shoot im sorry bro :( GGGGH the trio lineup… is there anything that may be able to connect all three of u? like video games or anime / manga or show genres… sometimes proposing playing a game during a break can also be good? whether its one in the building / an app u guys can all get or starting an informal tournament or smth … that can help break the ice as well.

  • if u guys even have some time together where u can casually hang out one on one, asking if girl would be down isnt the same as latching on!! and there are three months left… i get the !!! feeling of it being a week in and feeling very out of place already but keep ur head up!! that means there’s lots more time to find unexpected bonds with people :-D !!! esp if you guys make a gc bc i know sometimes text dynamics are different from irl ones ^^^ but like. take things at ur own pace. ur feelings are valid but the fact that it’s been a week thus far and u still dont know people too well yet (and they don’t know you well yet) can be a comfort rather than a source of alarm. who knows maybe someone’s gonna have the same interest as u where u least expect it (in a good way)

uhh some advice i heard for new social situations is to treat it like kindergarten and just be direct w what u want, when u want to hang out, and kind to others so if anything. u can always offer her to hang out or check smth out w you but also specify ur not trying to single out the other girl / that ur better with one on one conversations sometimes. ALSO IF U GUYS ARE ALLOWED TO EXPLORE THE BUILDING ASKING IF OTHERS WANNA EXPLORE W U CAN BE A GOOD PATHWAY TOO….. exploring is fun and silly.

ahhh yeah we have a big gc for like. our intern group but the 3 of us also have a teams gc that we use during like work hours so thay’s something. maybe we can have an imsg one too IDK. i did exchange instas w the girl too i jsut hardly use insta so idk how that’ll go so that’s something. i definitely don’t have anhthing like that in common with the Orher girl bur maybe i do with this girl idk i found out she was a huge dan and phil fan in the past HELP. like shes the only one who has a chance of knowing any of the thjngs i’m interested in afaik. urm if we end up with an imsg vc maybe i can make them play crazy8 witn me ☠️ i cnsntnt. uhm yeah. THESE ARE ALL GOOD SUGGESTIONS THANK U SM yeah im like maybe i jsut need to spend a little more time w rhese people + meet new people as well :-( might also meet my intern buddy/menror and ask if she has any advice… yayaaa