hi hello i post dog. this guy, specifically:
he loves you, and hopes you love yourself too. i want him to be a candle in the dark, i.e. not really doing much, sure, but still there. something to hold onto if you need it.
once you separate the concept of worry from the concept of problem-solving everything in life becomes thirty percent more bearable
the idea that worrying for its own sake is productive in any way, shape, or form is literally magical thinking. if there's nothing that can be done, i might as well Chill
unfortunately this is how I'm dealing with the idea of being homeless at the end of the month
it's mostly that i don't know how to find roommates atm lol but i will keep that in mind!! would happily accept roommate finding tips as well 👀
(hoping this will notify both of you lol) figured it out!! i now have a place to live for up to and including a year
Yes, I try this mode of thought. It works right up until my hell brain takes control.
ADHD hyperfocus is wonderful until it chooses to hyperfocus on things completely out of my control.
