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It's a frustrating but predictable move.
I've always had a problem with how, when someone here in Yanqistan asks, "how're you doing?" you're supposed to answer "great!"* When I took French class and was told that the default expected answer was "ça va pas mal" (lit, "it goes not badly;" often truncated to "ça va" or "pas mal") and that it was exceptionally good answers (along with exceptionally bad ones) that would get you more probing questions, I was thrilled.

So... I blame America.

* I'm not noticing this so much anymore? But maybe people haven't been asking me how I've been doing as much, or it's a shift over the last decade with the rise of political polarization, or it's because I'm a little older now, or it's some combination of the aforementioned factors.


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in reply to @bethposting's post:

I swear it's an attitude that trickles down. From the top "there's no reason any of our contractors should ever get less than five stars, if they get a low review then cut their hours." To "even the games worth looking at are dull, video games are so cooked."

Like this attitude where you only accept "exceptional" work because you feel like there's no reason to "settle" for anything else. Everything is ranked and anything that isn't something good enough to wrap your sense of self around gets devalued.

I wonder if it's cultural honestly (on the Japanese restaurant review site Tabelog for example, very few restaurants average more than 4 out of 5 stars and anything above 3.6 is probably already very good, and very often you see very glowing reviews that rate their experience a 4 out of 5 or lower)