Thinking about that dom aftercare art I rechosteddd...
I think that a lotta folks assume that being a dom = being big n strong and just able to take care of themselves but like- I think no matter which side you're playing in a situation like that you deserve just as much love and attention as the other.
I mean Violette, my VERY dommy headmate is super anxious! She worries about pushing boundaries or getting too intense and just still feels afraid to take control sometimes because she really hasn't had the chance to... be in control for most of her life. That isn't to say she isn't capable of taking care of herself or anything, but like everyone else, she deserves the love and care that both come after a scene, and just in general.
Go care for your doms!!
