step 1: it's allowed for you to ask for what you need
step 2: it's good for you to ask for what you need
step 3: it's allowed for you to ask for what you want
step 4: it's good for you to ask for what you want

We're an autistic trans system of ten: Hestia, Obsidian, Gwen, Eleanora, Alexandra, Diana, Maple, Carmilla, Liliana, and Invidia. Still finding our footing, both on the site and just kind of in general.
step 1: it's allowed for you to ask for what you need
step 2: it's good for you to ask for what you need
step 3: it's allowed for you to ask for what you want
step 4: it's good for you to ask for what you want