himochi

of the Silver Fuller

  • he/him

this night you need not walk alone



Just a guy!

Sleepy vibes and chronic fatigue zone so activity will be on and off probably.

Hobbies include art, tabletop games, hyperfixating, and more.


If you wanna send me little a money:
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in reply to @himochi's post:

rambles some more down in comments so as to not blast random mlm feelings on folks dash but like

im bi so i do relate to wlw folk a lot! but then being both male AND also attracted to men sometimes makes things feel Complicated in spaces with many wlw bc i always worry like.... is my attraction to men Weird here? is it Uncomfortable for me to express male attraction to women in heavily sapphic spaces?

(this is further complicated by being trans!! being transmasc is a great way to spend hours of your day trying to balance the line between personal identity and not causing discomfort to others)

anyway obviously im like. not gonna complain that wlw/sapphic/etc folk have spaces to be themselves. IM GLAD THESE SPACES EXIST!!! and i love and appreciate all the wonderful women i know.

its just... i dunno, also a little lonely sometimes

idk where im going with this! gender and attraction feelings and online social interaction Complicated:tm: haha

(im writing this on my phone so disclaimer that its not an all encompassing expression of my identity feelings, a lot of this is general broad strokes view of my experiences and isnt aimed at any specific identities or groups in particular, and also excuse any typos or errors lmao)

Obviously I can only speak for myself, a bi cis woman, but as far as non-wlw expressing attraction to women it's a vibes thing. Like as long as they're not being super heteronormative (I don't know if there's a better term to use but like... y'know???) about it even a cishet guy can have me like "Hell yeah! [insert Same Hat comic]"

But also I understand a lot of the feelings you have re: do I really belong in this kind of space. Like parts of you are not exactly welcome and more tolerated. I married a man so I always feel like something of an imposter in sapphic spaces even though I know that's the biphobia talking.