something i still need to internalize better is that you're usually allowed to answer questions in a non-constructive (in the logic sense) way. e.g. yes/no questions aren't asking for Bool they're asking for Prop: “do you want A?” “only if B”
i'm a bit notorious for answering indecisively and most of that is being unable to form opinions well until a few years ago but at least some of it is probably this