My primary concern with that website isn't necessarily their rules, because we saw a lot of bad faith concerntrolling about Cohost's own ToS and shit. I'm not really interested in determining what rules are as much as how they are enforced.

BUT...

They rank kinks based on perceived "severity," from Questionable to Extreme.

That already sucks enough for me not to use that site in the first place.

and tbh that's good enough for me.