seriously it's like a fucking super power, how do you roll with the weight of judgement looming over you
there are people who can and do do this and it astounds me every time
✨ Anybody we'd lose to cringe is someone we didn't need. That's the long and short of it. We want nothin' they're sellin', cause respectability only buys you a slightly nicer coffin.
🔔 I think this is the central point around which so much of our feelings orbit; if someone cringes at you, they are saving you work. They are taking themselves out with the trash and you don't need to do a thing. Let them judge. Their hearts are shriveled lumps. They don't deserve us, and they don't deserve you.
🎙️ We accepted that the pain of Not Being Ourselves was greater than the pain of Not Being What Others Want. That's it. There wasn't, like, a magic moment where it all become clear. It happened over time. We just... kinda outgrew our planter.
