🎙️ suddenly recalling a core memory of some well-meaning white activist girl on my long-dead Livejournal feed telling me "well actually you shouldn't use 'ballsy' to describe something being cool because that centers a male experience" and having the overwhelming urge to scream "YOU KNOW I'M TRANS, RIGHT" but letting it pass because in the moment that REALLY just was not worth it but like
also
fuck them.