โจ So, honestly? I dug it. I think there's a tendency for a lot of people to A) view endogenic plural systems as 'invalid,' and B) to view merging back into a singlet as a 'failure mode,' but frankly, I think both these ideas are deeply toxic.
Number 1, and I'm gonna just use this to soapbox a bit: endogenic systems are real. They are as real as any other kind of plurality, and if you're gonna be medicalist about this? Kindly fuck ALL the way off. That kind of thing is no better than transmedicalism and has no business being anywhere in a supportive community. Being traumagenic isn't 'more real' than being endogenic, whether or not you have a DID or OSDD medical rubber-stamp. So from the jump, the fact that Peggy exists as a facet created by hypnosis is not 'wrong,' nor does it make that expression of plurality wrong. These things exist on a spectrum, and if you're willing to entertain that gender can be a spectrum, well, so can plurality. The key is making sure you approach these things in a healthy, mature manner that encourages the better parts of your nature. (This isn't really about anything you did or said, question-asker, I'm just getting it on the table.)
Number 2, merging/fusion is... also valid! Sometimes plurality is temporary, and that's fine. Sometimes you need it to express a new perspective that is more functional for the situation you're dealing with, and then reintegrate that perspective once that purpose has been served. It's not what our system would want, but we've also seen it be functional and therapeutically-useful for people we know. I personally think it's beautiful when people become more whole, whether or not that means staying a system or becoming a singlet again. See my prior comments about how there's no right or wrong way to do this as long as it is approached in a healthy emotional fashion. The choice Peggy and Margaret made made sense to them, just like others have made that kind of choice. I'm not interested in evaluating it from the perspective of what makes sense to OUR system, because every system is different.
