Melody Beattie's Codependent No More should be required reading for fucked up queer twentysomethings. it's the kind of book that'll literally fix your brain if you can get past the weird AA stuff
For real, this book fundamentally changed the dynamic of my relationship(s). It's got a lot of good advice on letting go of shit you can't change that fucks you up long term, and how to build a healthier relationship with yourself.
Also can't recommend this enough.
