there's an advice post going around what cis men can do to groom a little better and I'm this close to muting it the next time I see it because I'm like man. it makes me feel bad for being a Bad Gay because I keep failing to incorporate moisturizing my face into the things I need to actively remember to do in the morning because I can't form habits to save my life like yes I know you'd think it would be the natural next step to washing my face but it's sooo hard to do anything that doesn't have make perceptible difference AND on bad days I forget to wash my face before I need to leave the house. you would not believe how many personal grooming things come down to establishing a routine and despite the rest of my life being in relative order (at least in comparison to my adult life so far as a whole) I'm forever defeated by actions considered to be "habits"