was grabbing my partner andy's site url to post here and let y'all know i'm gonna try to get him to join cohost because i think he'll find a lot of folks with shared interests/skills here AND THEN i noticed his about page photo is him with pumagreg in my old kitchen 
btw if he does join and anyone is rude to him i will respond accordingly (ie. with 10x the negative energy warranted back at the offender)