I'm Jeron (rhymes with Erin). A trans girl, apparently. I dabble in basically everything. World Record Holder. Girl-King of cats. Fledgling Goddess of Hunger


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pastellexists
@pastellexists

this feels really really weird for me to write but i need money. i've started college recently, in massachusetts and i've gotten in with a doctor for HRT that has been absolutely wonderful so far. unfortunately, my parents are unwilling to pay for HRT and associated care, and i am currently unemployed because my previous employer pivoted to short form video and i'm waiting on my college to open more jobs.

my family is well off, i'm not in any immediate financial trouble except for in this one specific area because my parents won't pay for this. we're well-off enough that i wasn't awarded federal work-study based on the FAFSA, and my school (rightly) prioritizes students who have work-study and need to work when hiring for student positions, so i'm more or less kicked to the back of the line.

i have good health insurance, but even still, i suspect the initial bloodwork that i need to start HRT will cost at least $250 dollars, even after insurance.
i need the following tests done within a month:

  • Estradiol
  • Lipid panel
  • Testosterone, total.
  • Dihydrotestosterone, Serum
  • Hemoglobin A1c test
  • Prolactin
  • 25-OH vitamin D

i've only been able to get estimates for four of those tests, which comes out to costing $137.60, not accounting for the other three that i can't get an estimate for. the average cost per test, then, is 34.4, multiplied by 7, the total should be somewhere in the ballpark of $250 bucks. unfortunately i suspect it will be much more because all the unaccounted for tests are pretty Weird and Niche.

so i'm asking for $500 USD. my hope is that this will cover the bloodwork, even if it's more expensive than expected, and also any co-pay i owe my doctor, and the co-pays on the HRT medications. the next time i'd need bloodwork is in about three months, so hopefully by then i'll have a job. if i can't scrounge together enough cash on my own for this, i will probably have to basically embezzle money from my parents, which i really don't want to do, for fear they catch on.

i feel profoundly awkward asking for money considering i come from such a privileged background, but i really don't know what else to do. if anyone can spare any money and/or share this post, i'd really really appreciate it. i would also be happy to edit video for you in exchange, although i don't think that's really the kind of thing people generally just happen to need or want at any random time. idk i could make a silly shitpost for you. my cashapp is $pastellexists.

also, i know there are some people on cohost who work in healthcare or otherwise know more about it than i do. if anyone knows how to get discounts on bloodwork and medication, or if there are any short-term personal grants i could apply for, or even just how to get a more accurate estimate, i would really really appreciate any tips.


pastellexists
@pastellexists

hi everyone! i need to get this bloodwork done in about a week, and i'm still short of even my most conservative estimate for how much this is gonna cost. i'm calling the hospital tomorrow to see if i can get an actual estimate for all of this, but regardless i still really need money.
i'm happy to video edit, do some research, data entry, anything like that, too.
thank you again!


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in reply to @pastellexists's post:

people with otherwise privileged backgrounds can still need help. if i realized i was trans about three years sooner, i very well could have been in exactly the same situation, or worse. it's shitty of your family to try and stop you on this, you deserve better, and you deserve help; "privilege" or not. anyways, here's fifty dollars

i cashapp'd you, let me know if there are any issues -
could you call your insurance and find out if your parents would be able to see the specifics if your bloodwork, or just if you had bloodwork at all? (you can phrase it as "plan holder" if that feels less suspicious to ask lol) you could also maybe ask the bloodwork to put some of them on insurance, like vitamin d is not suspicious on its own (in my opinion at least). and where I get blood work at least, you don't have to pay at the time of the appointment, you get a bill later, which hopefully helps with the time pressure a little bit. plus hospitals should have payment plans and such (i am unfortunately no expert on this, one time UCI just sent me a letter saying 'we paid your bill for you you're good now' instead of an actual bill for reasons unknown to me). you also... may be able to go on MA health insurance instead or as well if you're living there? (again, not my area of expertise, i both embezzled money from my parents in college and didn't start HRT until i was on my own insurance)