jkap

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i have never, for as long as i can remember, had much of a sense of smell. when i was real young i decided the best way to handle this was to just lie when anyone asked me to smell something, because the first few times i said "i don't smell anything" that was not really accepted as a real response. people like when you play along, though!

anyway the way this is related to candles is that i finally, at the age of 29, acknowledged to my mom that yes i'm sure that candle smells great but i have literally no way of knowing. the 20+ year lie has ended. the veil of deceit has been lifted. i can't smell shit and i've never been able to. i've never felt so free.


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that totally makes sense! i had always assumed that, despite having a poor sense of smell, my sense of taste was totally fine! turns out: it super isn't, so i am way more dependent on texture than i think is Standard. it is always nice when i can find something that is able to activate both in a pleasant way

while it hasnt happened as much with smells (despite also not being great at smelling things), i had the same response to telling people i dont remember something for SO LONG, like it was just incorrect that my memory was bad. some ppl really really hate the idea that someone might not have an answer i guess

i have congenital anosmia and every single time i tell anyone they say 'youre lying' or they stick something smelly in my face and balk at my lack of response with a big whiff. is there something commonly believed to be gained by claiming no sense of smell. it mystifies me

meanwhile people who have known for 8+ years (including my best friends and my Blood Family) will say 'smell this' followed by 'oops, i forgot, sorry' like at least once a week

I have some kind of sinus issue that I need to get checked out. One of the things it does is also reduce my sense of smell (and therefore taste). I also have a hard time breathing through my nose. I joke that my nose is purely aesthetic.