i have never, for as long as i can remember, had much of a sense of smell. when i was real young i decided the best way to handle this was to just lie when anyone asked me to smell something, because the first few times i said "i don't smell anything" that was not really accepted as a real response. people like when you play along, though!
anyway the way this is related to candles is that i finally, at the age of 29, acknowledged to my mom that yes i'm sure that candle smells great but i have literally no way of knowing. the 20+ year lie has ended. the veil of deceit has been lifted. i can't smell shit and i've never been able to. i've never felt so free.
