julez

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i’m going to my friends’ gay wedding at the beginning of december and the dress code is ‘garden chic’ and i want feedback on this look, is it giving? it’s much more boob forward than anything else i wear, was thinking i might get boob flattening tape and that might make this look more comfortable for me idk

i don’t hate it but i also think the halter silhouette might be too aughts energy which is when i procured this particular piece of clothing

feel freeeeee to give honest feedback


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I like it! though it is 2000s that stuff is coming back some.

Thoughts on the cleavage: see what shortening the neck strap, enough so that you just get a hint of between-boob, does for the look.

I'd add a necklace or pendant to keep the eye moving, too. Not too bold, since you've got a bold jacket and a bold dress, but something to fill the space a little and keep the eye moving up.

i played with the neckline some and how u see it is honestly my best balance between it looking the best and the most comfort for me sensation wise on my neck. i totally agree about the necklace, not sure if i have one that is quite the right length and style for this look but yeah i know what you mean about having something in that neck chest area

fair enough and i would tend to agree with you but i was watching a taylor swift video essay earlier in the day and from her early aughts fashion she had a lot of this particular type of silhouette and i was thinking it might not be the vibe idk still on the fence

the benefit of this look is that i already own it so wouldn’t have to buy anything other than maybe some shoes or accessories

Actually, let me go further: good or bad aesthetic don't exist, there is only atoms and the void, therefor we should do whatever.
That's my attitude to fashion. Unfortunately, I only wear black t-shirt, because I don't know how to dress.

The outfit is gorgeous! As far as the eye contact concern, I feel like a necklace with a pop of color higher on the neck would guide the eyes up and tie together the look.

If you don't have the jewelry, tape is definitely cheaper. And it's only an issue in the first place if it affects your confidence and comfort

thank u! the necklace definitely would make this look more complete, my partner also suggested rolling up the cuffs since they’re a tad long on me

bc it’s a queer wedding too i’m definitely thinking maybe this is too leaning into how the world already perceives me as an afab person and maybe i should make an effort to have a more gender-fuckery type of style idk, the boob tape might make me feel like i’m more in that direction

love the outfit, especially the colour combination! I tend to think that good fashion is timeless, and especially so in queer contexts, so I don't think the vibe is off.

as far as the gender presentation goes, rather than boob flattening tape how about getting a binder in the same orange as the jacket -- it doesn't even have to be bound tight, the point would be to turn gender-affirmation into a fashion accessory

thank u!! i like ur binder idea in theory though for me in practice i don’t think sensory wise i’d be super comfy in a binder for the length of the wedding and reception even if it were looser fitting

and my access to different colors and styles of binders is a bit more limited by virtue of not being in the us

tysm for the suggestion tho i appreciate it