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so like. what the fuck do I wear to a wedding?
I’m not comfortable in dresses or tuxes, I don’t fit neatly into femme or masc presentation, and I’ve previously solved this by just dodging formal situations
But two good friends are getting married in the fall and I really want to go.
the fuck do I wear?
Not sure how far it falls on the femme or masc scale, but I like and have seen friends go with formal pants + formal shirt + vest?
I'm especially not comfy now in suits or tuxedos (though mine is mainly because stiff stigmatized expensive clothes) but vests and bowties have been my friends lately and probably the most formal I'm going to ever get myself unless held at proverbial gunpoint.
this is what i was thinking, i have to ask if it's acceptable for them
