Peak t4t friendship is giving each other your fetishes and then worldbuilding around them.
The part about trans culture that bewilders my cis friends the most is how I just kinda know all of my friends’ kinks and fetishes even though I’m not like, flirty with them or ever going to do anything involving those things with them… it’s just like… lore. Friend lore.
oh yeah im one of the mythical cis guys who just kind of got adopted by a group of trans folks at some point so my friend circle has been kinda built outward from them and this whole thing is actually just good fun
like it's fun to be able to tease your friends a little or let them engage in a thing they're into or indulge them a little without actually having to be like, involved or partners or anything.
im not even into most of the things they are? there isn't that much overlap? it's just fun! it's just one of their little things that they like!