how can i be as irritating as possible to the right people about what an incredibly bad and disappointing idea the discord username thing is
discord is about group spaces i could give a fuck about discoverability
but if you are having trouble sharing your discord handle then i mean you could always change your discord handle to something easier to share
and then if your chosen handle is already taken, no problem! there can be duplicates thanks to the discriminator
discriminators are clever, they make it hard to guess someone's handle even if you know what they usually go by, and they make discord handles immediately identifiable at a glance. i don't know why you would give up identity protection and brand recognition™ just so Mike#6137 is now mike6137