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deergrace
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So, that post was a spur-of-the-moment research hyperfixation, prompted by the meme being linked to me last night, but I got to thinking today: I bet there’s more?

Returning to the pages of The Body Politic, I found several more mentions in the Internet Archive’s collection, which ends in 1987 - when it stopped being printed, in favour of the same publisher’s tabloid newspaper format, the now-defunct print version of Xtra.

July/August 1981:

A review of notorious NYC "fuck bar," The Mineshaft, mentions that the writer's friend is, in a back corner, "having the gentlest of bambisexual encounters."

March 1981:

A letter to the editor titled "Vigorous cuddling" endorses the Bambisexual Liberation Front's December 1979/January 1980 letter to the editor and "oppos[ing] the tyranny of genital primacy" generally, and is signed as the "Cuddlers' Caucus" of the BLF.

March 1982:

A "raincheck" from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, in the format of a parody coupon for various sex acts, including "a fabulous blowjob," "prolonged titwork," "a bambisexual cuddlefest" and "a scrumptious scat scene."

June 1983:

An entry from an article consisting of a glossary of gay slang, which for "gentle" gives the definition "in life, non-warlike; in sex, bambisexual," before launching into a poem about a "cuddly-wuddly lad" bambisexual, written by the fictitious Wilbur Wimplegon.

January/February 1984:

A New Year's 1984 "Whatever happened to" list including such items as "Anita Bryant," "the progressive social policies of the NDP," "herpes," and "the bambisexual liberation front," among others.

April 1986:

A profile of gay humourist Richard Summerbell, writer of the June 1983 glossary, calling him "an endearing comic poet, especially under the guise of the various experts he calls upon when he himself lacks the necessary expert knowledge, from bambisexual Wilbur Wimplegon to that archetypal historial lesbian, Vidalia Sapphoon."

And then, since I was on the Internet Archive already, what else is there to say about Bambisexuals? The Bay Area Reporter's June 1982 issue flat-out rips off the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence article from TBP's March 1982 issue, only... without the joke of the "coupon" (and was the Bay Area even aware of Fran's?):

A summary of TBP's Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence article from the March 1982 issue, mentioning "a bambisexual cuddlefest" again.

Michael Chabon's 2008 novel, The Mysteries of Pittsburgh, uses "Bambisexual" as a malapropism from a character searching for the word "bisexual":

One character describes another as back when he was "still ambisexually inclined. Bambisexual. Iambisexual."

2006's But So Did Her Brother, which appears to be a lengthy shitpost by a gay English prof at the University of Wisconsin, in the format of a 338-page zine, says... this:

I'm sorry, I can't summarize this one easily, but imagine a Dr. Bronner label discussing gay cruising in an incredibly deranged but not homophobic way?

2006's Gay-2-Zee: A Dictionary of Sex, Subtext and the Sublime makes the subtext text, but gendered:

"Bambisexual: said of one who only likes to cuddle and kiss, but not involve his genitalia. (From Bambi, the almost sexless deer at the center of author Felix Salten's story and Disney's film.)"

2006's Self-Organizing Men: Conscious Masculinities in Time and Space, a transmasc manifesto:

"Most transsexuals, homosexuals, heterosexuals, bisexuals, ambisexuals and bambisexuals are invested in gender as a category of human social intelligibility. Should their investment be overturned in favor of a theory of genderless utopia?"

And finally, good god, 2010's The Big Black Book of Very Dirty Words:

Michael Jackson, due to his "doe eyes and iffy sexual preferences," is defined as "the quintessential Bambisexual."

So... what else can we learn here from these historical sources?

Well, first, I am now very confident that Bambisexual was, when originally coined, probably in the late 70s, overwhelmingly used as a term of derision for gay men seen as too vanilla, soft or cowardly to have 'real' sex. A few people tried to reclaim it, but I don't think it was very successful, given that by 1983 Richard Summerbell is mocking them via a mouthpiece OC (so to speak) with the very fancy-lad name of "Wilbur Wimplegon," and by 1984, TBP is wondering whatever happened to the Bambisexual Liberation Front.

The secondary sources are fascinating too, because they suggest a parallel history of the terminology that didn't draw on The Alyson Almanac or tumblr at any point. I can't imagine that anyone who wanted to say something positive about Bambisexuals would call Michael Jackson one out of nowhere, say, and I suspect it's only because the 2006 and 2010 slang glossary books were published in 2006 and 2010, and targeted at gay men specifically (long after Bambi has stopped being periodically re-released in theatres or pumped up as going back into the Disney Vault!!) that those writers felt it necessary to be explicit about the inspiration.

Anyway, what this exercise has reminded me, more than anything, is that there's a treasure trove of queer history just... sitting there, on the Internet Archive, and I think I'm going to do some more deep dives like this.


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in reply to @deergrace's post:

This is fascinating to me, because I was taught in a queer history course in college that bambisexual was a term used derisively towards political lesbians by non-political lesbains.

I’ll look around and see if I can find my notes about it, because I’m wondering where my professor got the info (he was a youngish transmasc guy, so I don’t think he’d have personal experience with the term in the 80s either)

Edit: I can't find anything in my admittedly sparse notes. If I can find the syllabus, I might comb through some of the readings to see if there's anything in there, but the more I research the more I think my prof may've instead used the new term "bambi lesbian" as shorthand to clarify to us why there was conflict between the two groups. Looks like "bambi lesbian" as a term is an offshoot that came into being in the 2010s anyway so