You know how they say "Even if you think you're straight it's worth interrogating your sexuality, and even if you think you're cis it's worth interrogating your gender, because even if you choose to stay cis/straight you will feel so much more affirmed in who you are"?
Well, can't say I ever experienced that, because I'm very gay and very non-binary, but that's always sounded like pretty good advice to me.
But lately I've been doing a lot of thinking about where I fall on the singlet/plural spectrum, and every single time that happens, I decide I woulf rather see myself as one single person.
And I gotta say: it rules. It rules to be one person because I chose to instead of because it's the default. I do feel so much more affirmed in who I am now that I've given the subject a ton of thought and chose to be me the way I am me over and over again. I feel so much more grounded and confident and I feel like I know myself so much better now.
Thinking about your identity and who you want to be rules actually.