I don't really know what I'm meant to do for mother's day. i love her yeah but it feels super arbitrary and like I'm just checking off a box if I call her or whatever. it kinda sucks that I don't give much to/do much for the people I care about but im not really sure what to do about that anyway
look at the sky.
taste me, as the food and drink Alice found almost said. she was cast unto a stormshorn sunderedsea. you too will fall beneath my waves in time.
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in reply to @lookatthesky's post:
im like weird about this stuff cause my dad was always kind of a dick about father's day and mother's day. like fuck dude, im not gonna arbitrarily appreciate you more just cause its a weird day. you wanna celebrate yourself? sure whatever. celebrate motherhood/fatherhood, im into it, ill even happily join if it doesnt feel like im somehow obligated. I took a lot of shit for not passing an arbitrary threshold of "caring enough" -.- so now i care so little it's gone negative
anyways i kinda feel the same about birthdays. its your day to celebrate yourself, you gotta own that shit, its nobody else's responsibility to celebrate you. invite people to celebrate yourself with you!!! let them join, people love to celebrate each other! but as soon as it feels like an Obligation instead of something im opting into cause i wanna celebrate too i feel weird about it and have to peace out. same with giving gifts, physical or otherwise.
Can you send her a quick text? Either way, my guess is she knows you love her.