the annoying part about not having a libido is I'm extremely about all the parts of "having sex" but the having of it part.
asexual as in sex hobbiest
tho in reality it's more that Rarely Experiencing A Libido just opens up a lot of things while also meaning it's incredibly easy for me to get distracted by other things and or bored in the funniest ways but generally frustrating for whoever im with on those nights even if the rest is good lmao