how the fuck am i meant to decide how to start a native garden as someone who's never gardened before - especially as most "guides to gardening" do not focus on natives and even if they do they probably don't have advice for my ecology. do i just like get some seeds plant em and see what grows and learn from that? my brain will shut down if i feel like i Have to have a perfect idea of what im doing before even starting, so idk, that seems best. somehow make a lot of mistakes and make them really fast and see what sticks