🏳️‍⚧️ Andréa ΘΔ 🐉

Feeling "it turns out losers who want to wipe the slate clean at any unpalatable shit aren't equipped to provide a nuanced life experience" so damn hard.

I think a lot about the time I'd see someone who was really quick to condemn a bunch of fantasy kinks as "dangerous" while also... being extremely careless with breathplay posts. Talking up how Not Dangerous it is if you just do a blood-choke and presenting it as like an entry-level kink. As if "novices performing erotic asphyxiation while following an online guide they read like twice" isn't already the setup for a ton of ambulance calls.

you absolutely fuckin nailed it dude

"reach age 25 with no friends that aren't secretly afraid of them" yea...

I know some people speed running it: 20 year olds showing up in my dm's because I liked a pic of the wrong kind of sexy lizard, slowly alienating every social circle they touch

meanwhile the mf'ers into clothing tf casually drop pearls of wisdom that sprout like seeds from the finest gardens, cultivated to sustain through the harshest of seasons

i agree. i hate picrew dickheads, i have a Reaction when i encounter them, they ruined half a decade of my internet life

I feel like this needs to get reposted to every single social media platform so I can loudly reblog it on every fucking account I have

This reason right here is probably why I have a much easier and pleasant time talking to my fans/viewerbase than other artists. Especially as an artist who's over 40, I'm just seen as some creepy weirdo who needs to be isolated from others. I have very few friends who know how to filter my strange flaws; they've stayed with me for years, despite my dumb mistakes, and I love them all to death. ♥

all-timer thread tbqh

Yes, god, well said.

My favorite bit is how they talk like they just absolutely know that "porn normalizes real acts," and then when you actually bother to look it up, every single study on the idea concludes anywhere between "no apparent correlation, seems weak" to "porn correlates with less sexual violence, especially toward kids and vulnerable cohorts."

Which, of course it does. Demented behavior comes from sexual repression. The priests, the closeted, the fascists, the theocratically oppressed. It's denying yourself and hating yourself and building up a complex about it that makes you have massive cognitive dissonance that lets you do awful shit without acknowledging it.

Half these MFs are just falling in line out of fear, and the other half are hiding kinks so dark they're boiling their brains and trying to larp as a paladin online to throw us off the trail, setting everyone else on fire lest we find out their horrible secret.

i honestly gave up on exploring any kind of sexuality because it just felt like too much trouble.
its not like im DYING for any of it but for me i think at this point im happier passively walking on the other side of the street than dealing with the constant anxiety that im gonna get beaten and dragged through the proverbial street cause im just #different

thank you to every kinky person in the world I love you and you're my favourite people

love u and everybody in the comments so much

Always find that those types assume consent is "you do what I say without questions and I get to say anything you've done or will ever do breached my consent" and usually the former with threat of the latter...

Yes. This, all of this

Soo soo based is amazing to read

It's surreal for me, my relationship with porn and kink is something that would fry their brains. I am of an age where I literally would not have known that trans women exist were it not for niche fetish porn.

feel this shit. used to be the problem, now im the solution, the turntables got to me too

Thinking about all the be gay do crime bios i've seen followed by a dni list longer than santa's naughty list

they ain´t wrong, some of the coolest and chillest people i´ve met have been freaks not only, that but they will even give good advice on the topic of consent and what red flags to look out for. meanwhile the most puritanical hello kitty uwu mother fuckers on the internetl not only will send you death threats and try to ruin your life over, say kink art that hurts no one, but will turn to be secretly abusers as well.