please understand that if you run a discord server that everyone hates you for not changing this setting

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please understand that if you run a discord server that everyone hates you for not changing this setting
I can't even imagine why anyone tolerates it. why don't server admins change it? maddening behavior. I do not need a fucking push notification on my phone for every last goddamn message in your server
oh yeah, this feels like some kind of evil bullshit engagement hack that all the engineers know is evil
Nice to know that this option exists on the admin end so I can be annoyed whenever any server with more than 20 people in it leaves it on the default option
pretty sure in the server admin panel they used to have a cutesy message saying "make sure to change this in big servers or this will happen! lol" with a link to a video of lots of notifications or something. almost like they knew it was a problem but didn't change it?? now it just says they "strongly recommend" it for Community servers. just Community servers, everyone else is fine getting blasted with pings all day