bymy earlobes have healed nicely (probably will post selfies here one day but not really up to it yet), and I'm starting to eye helix piercings. as with many things luné is a model here - I don't think I could do the tongue piercing I've given her but I want the 3 (right) and 2 (left) loops she has.
not to imply this is a complete thing and not an ongoing process, but amazing what you can consider for yourself when you stop getting held back by "I can't do this"