having only like 20 hours of waking time a week to fit all of my chores, tasks, errands, and social time while also trying to do hobbies and find community is really hard

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you can say "chimoora" instead of "cow of tailed snake" if you want. its a good pun.
i ramble about aerospace sometimes
I take rocket photos and you can see them @aWildLupi
I have a terminal case of bovine pungiform encephalopathy, the bovine puns are cowmpulsory
they/them/moo where "moo" stands in for "you" or where it's funny, like "how are moo today, Lupi?" or "dancing with mooself"
having only like 20 hours of waking time a week to fit all of my chores, tasks, errands, and social time while also trying to do hobbies and find community is really hard
You should read How To Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis it's written by and for ADHD people and is all about how you don't have to do everything and how to do what you do need to do..
But also FUCKIN MOOOOOD AAAA
the fun neat ironic thing is that I keep wanting to read it but never find the time(energy) lol
but ty for the reminder!! im gonna find a copy
The chapters are all like 3 pages each so it's a very quick read. You pick it up, knock out a chapter or two and feel good, then put it down. It's basically designed for exactly this problem of not having time to read a book
so adhd brain tasks unspool easily into overwhelming messes. to read the book I have to find a copy which means navigating piracy websites, or find a copy in the library and then figure out my library card number and figure out how to navigate the site to figure out how to place a hold and then wait, or buying it. to buy it I have to search for the best deal and look at how much money I have and then think about all the other things im planning on buying and my bills and loans and that takes time so I have to make space/time to plan that out and,, it just keeps going haha
just to be clear that when I say "don't have time/energy" that's shorthand for "don't have executive functioning to get over adhd brain" haha. if you have a copy or could help cut through this crud then that would be amazing but otherwise hhhh it'll happen one day,
alas I borrowed the ebook on Libby and then bought the ebook because I wanted to keep it for reference in the future.
that said I can always just place the hold for you from work by looking up your legal name in the system and giving you a hold on a hard copy closed to your house or work haha.