realizing that, in the past, I've tended to be critical (in the critique sense, not the "ugh this place sucks" sense) of any given social media website I'm using, and that of the five currently relevant ones I can think of (Twitter, Cohost, Bluesky, Tumblr, Mastodon/the Fediverse) cohost feels like the only one where being critical of the website might lead to positive change in any way
the big corporate ones are big corporate and the federated ones, in a lot of instances, are too constrained by their own technical choices to change various things in a positive fashion

