is that, basically, there are pretty good reasons that a queer person might bristle at being told that who they are is fundamentally and irreversibly determined by conditions of their birth that they could never have had a say in

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you can say "chimoora" instead of "cow of tailed snake" if you want. its a good pun.
i ramble about aerospace sometimes
I take rocket photos and you can see them @aWildLupi
I have a terminal case of bovine pungiform encephalopathy, the bovine puns are cowmpulsory
they/them/moo where "moo" stands in for "you" or where it's funny, like "how are moo today, Lupi?" or "dancing with mooself"
is that, basically, there are pretty good reasons that a queer person might bristle at being told that who they are is fundamentally and irreversibly determined by conditions of their birth that they could never have had a say in
real, i know this isnt gay people but you'd think more trans people would dislike the idea of the circumstances your birth determining core aspects of your being but (shrugs)
yo same. if its just for fun then whatever but i get skeeved out when i see a Lot of magical thinking on display, or a willingness to involve people in it without asking