lys bedsores

the amount of people i know who have had to leave kink groups when they were fundamentally unwilling to send that one creep to the shadow realm or at least pull them aside for a serious talk and precisely one warning, compounded with the fact that there tends to be exactly one kink group per urban area from my exposure to scenes, suggests that maybe, just maybe, groups should look to take out their own trash before introducing tons of social rituals to try and fix their problems