stretches my wings, gives them a big flap, blast of air knocks over everything on your table
I'm thinking about the fact that wings are very much limbs. Using them to manipulate the world, even despite a lack of close dexterity. Give your friend a friendly wing nudge to cheer them on. Use one to push a door closed behind you while your arms are full of something heavy. Gotta let them stretch; idly rolling the wing shoulder joints around while readying up to take off...
On at least one occasion I was looking at my phone while having a phantom shift moment and absentmindedly attempted tapping the screen with a wing thumb claw
