i am just a litel babie……
how do i centre these dang images
“Fey, why are you so supportive to people you don’t know? Why are you so upbeat? Why are you so positive to strangers?”
Because… I like being Niceys. And it. Feels really nice to be Niceys. And it makes people happy, and people is often me as well :)
It feels good and fulfilling to just be pleasant to people as a default state of being unless they give you reason not to, and it’s good and fun and makes my heart happy, and I recommend trying it
When I help people find stuff at work and they're just super nice and happy :> being Niceys is the best
being nice to people unless prompted to be otherwise is so so much easier on the mind and makes socializing very fun
No bitching, no being a sour human, no being suspicious of others, just gud vibes. And it doesn't even mean you have to be a pushover either ! Just that your neutral state isn't "unpleasant person"
Exactly! It’s not being a pushover or a people pleaser, but defaulting to “pleasant unless someone gives a good reason not to be” is just… better for the soul, I find. Been a lot less stress in my life since I started making the effort to be that way
being nice is so, well, nice! why would anyone not wanna be?
