I actually replied to a Youtube comment yesterday about someone talking about their mother having a certain experience that she might have repressed because it was a thing she might not have had the language for given it was not socially acceptable in her time and she might never have found community for it or made peace with herself about it
But because Youtube is Youtube when that person read my comment asking like "have you ever heard of (alternate name for experience they're describing that the mother has described)?" they were like "Yeah sorry I guess I didn't account for all the various experiences people have" sort of sarcastically but the whole of their comment was still polite and trying to be friendly
It kinda killed me because they expected me to be trying to pick a fight when I was literally like. Call your mother.
I'm waddling into Youtube comments like Hello!!! I think it would be cool to use this idea as a way of connecting with people in your actual life you care about!!!
and they're like
AH FUCK SOMEONE'S BEING AUTHENTIC AND JUST ACTUALLY FRIENDLY??? LIKE JUST NICE??? LIKE MAYBE ACTUALLY TOO FRIENDLY???