marfle-bark

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josie! a poly pan lesbian in ATX :3!

snow leopard (snep) + husky (ski) = snepski!!

EN native / ES / DE / YI

Music and other art, games, computing, gardening, chemistry, animals, and more~

I will rechost NSFW, it’s gonna happen, watch out ;3
@alt-snepsk-sex for the lewd account

sometimes i just think about my boyfriend and my girlfriend and it makes me so happy :333

one of those “two greek letters and an ampersand” girls


bsky
marfle-bark.bsky.social
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the-wyrms-tail
@the-wyrms-tail
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Webster
@Webster

"pete buttigieg is just a faggot" applies to abdl too. if you're not concerned about this i recommend changing your mind before it's your turn.


alchemistdoctor
@alchemistdoctor

You know what's wild? I'm an asexual who has -0 interest in sex stuff, a lot of it squicks me out, and I still can comprehend that I don't define others' experience enough that I can say "so long as you are both consenting adult humans, please enjoy doing whatever the hell you like, have fun making each other feel silly and goofy and also orgasms."

It is NOT HARD. I'm not forced to be in the room with you or anything. Sometimes you post art. It's art. Sometimes you post bodies. They're bodies. You use the 18+tag. Good job!

It's so fucking simple to mind your business. Why is this an issue.

Anyway this is partially to say that I don't feel entirely comfortable making big posts about X or Y kink, because I don't really want it in my personal space and that includes possibly getting weird DMs. But I am fully and always supportive of consenting human adults getting it on, and they can do it pretending to be whatever the fuck they want, because playing pretend is not reality. Go have consensual fun and also orgasms. I will be over here cramming pears and also apples into my mouth. [1]

[1] I joined a community sponsored agriculture thing for a fruit share and guys I have eaten so many pears and apples this fall and my flatmate doesn't like fruit and so it's all just me or they go bad and I think I've eaten like twelve in the last two days and that's 6 a DAY and it's getting kind of out of hand but also you can't stop me (go join a community sponsored agriculture project, you get a lot of fresh local food)


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in reply to @the-wyrms-tail's post:

They removed hypnosis content recently under the guise that it was "non-consensual". Now they've removed ABDL content under the guise that it's "sexualized minors".

I'm saying this totally and completely unironically, it is a very small step to ban furry content under the guise of it being animal cruelty or zoo or anything else.

It's not even like "oh, they updated the TOS and darn it, I have a month to find a new location." It was done with ZERO warning and ZERO appeals allowed, two days before payday. Anyone who has anything approaching non-vanilla content should be very scared and wary of that kind of sweeping action.

I think one of the more scary parts is the “National Center On Sexual Exploitation” (NCOSE, formerly known as Morality in Media, a literal right-wing evangelical hate group with a thinly professional veneer) has a statement about ABDL that I have heard pretty much literally verbatim in left-leaning spaces.

Being a little shouldn’t be a radicalizing experience, but it is. And it’s not the fun type, it’s the ‘realizing just how many people will go along with your politics but want you dead for what you do in the bedroom’ type.

Babyfurs have fought HARD to get ourselves established in the furry community as legitimate and even still, you still see people acting weird about it from time to time. But if you go to any furry con in the US, it's going to have a babyfur presence. I am one of the leads on the FWA babyfur panel and we are the largest AD panel by far. So much so that they have to give us two rooms.

In the non-furry space, it's still considered a hyper-extreme kink on par with like scat or vomit or incest or whatever else is considered "too taboo for most porn sites". And it really doesn't help that a lot of the non-furry ABDLs have extreme amount of shame about the kink. It's super common to hear stories about people who don't reveal this side of themselves to their partner until they get married because they're SO SCARED that their partner will automatically assume they're a pedo.

It's a really frustrating situation. And it's made worse because the people affected by it can't really make some sort of public statement or go to the press or whatever without outing themselves.

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"Adult + diaper = CP!!!" is an amount of mind acrobatics that can and will be used against any and all other communities. It already IS used even!
"Adult + fur = zoo!" is literally just 1 step away. Not even a full step. And what next? "Using the word Daddy or baby means you're a pedo!". "Adults watching cartoons means they're GROOMERS!!11!2!". "Wearing make up as a MAN means you're trying to rob a bank!!!"

They're not even TRYING to come up with remotely decent lies, because they don't have to. I have told all my non-ABDL friends about this as well, and most of them are horrified enough to care now. I just hope "now" is not too late.

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