joke so good i had to dm several people about it
are you a bad enough dude?
- he/him zhe/hir
- toyhou.se/vortinia
awesome. 27 and white. i post words & pictures. my opinions aren't usually morally imperative and i love complaining. im butch lesbian & TME. vortinia some places, newLumos others. i love my wife @mothmans by the way. if you interact on a fetish account i might block you sorry
in my eyes: the act of a gender-nonconforming person purposefully dressing a gendered way of the expectation they defy- say, a gender non-conforming masculine woman purposefully wearing lingerie and garments that are considered feminine- is still utterly gender non-conforming, and works against harmfully gendered ideals regarding lingerie
the only thing that's going to emasculate me is if i stop identifying this way. i wear a bra because i need to conceal my fucking wrecking balls, not out of some freudian urge to be feminine. it's twice as non-conforming whether you like it or not, in fact
in my eyes: the act of a gender-nonconforming person purposefully dressing a gendered way of the expectation they defy- say, a gender non-conforming masculine woman purposefully wearing lingerie and garments that are considered feminine- is still utterly gender non-conforming, and works against harmfully gendered ideals regarding lingerie
also origami customs saves my fucking life. transgender focused lingerie shops make me feel way less gendered, thats for sure