I called my ex abusive when they weren't by Clementine Morrigan
One of those essays I just read and go "wow, absolutely everyone needs to read this one"

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One of those essays I just read and go "wow, absolutely everyone needs to read this one"
this, alongside "abuser is not a class", are some of the most challenging and important things I've read this year. thank you
Been reading more and more of these challenging and thoughtful reads this year and Iโve been really grateful. I also recommend the short book, โWe Will Not Cancel Us.โ Itโs written similar to this, in a very powerful and uplifting way.
reading this essay & your lashon hara post earlier this year was really helpful for me so i just wanted to say thank you!
I really wish this and your "abuser is not a class" posts existed some 10 years ago. So many complex interpersonal problems I was aware of in my communities, no framing for even understanding the way everyone involved was talking about each other. It's so easy for a young malleable person to be swayed this way or that when they don't understand the social context they're living in.