why is my bard so puppy coded

why is my bard so puppy coded
Average elezen vs average miqote
MINTHARA LINES GOT FIXED IS IT TIME TO BE ABYSMALLY EVIL?
I literally keep forgetting about the male companions in bg3 LOL not that they aren't good, astarion is astarion, wyll is wonderful and I'm surprised that I actually like gale but the ladies just have so much presence LOL