I think I'm going to try and go to a pride event for the first time this weekend.
Since getting my new job, I haven't felt like drinking. Used to reliably average 2-4 drinks a day. Had two beers in the last three weeks. If this headache would go away it would be perfect.
There is the same elements of a black and white uniform, but with potential for arm garters instead of leg garters.
The thing is that the power imbalance goes both ways though. The bartender is there to serve you, but also cannot be compelled to follow your requests.
Area Transgender Bartender now officially free of job where she was referred to "Ladies, gentlemen, and whatever you are", where boss told her deadname to random customers, and where she was banned from wearing a womens uniform!