(This is Outlook but you see the trend, right?)
Having to switch to safari to install a PWA was already giving me the same "what's the point of a default if it's not respected" feeling as Microsoft's dark pattern hell - I do think Apple is doing a better job than most, and their defaults are better than Microsoft's, but I also just think all of big tech is going in this "no respect for the user's preferences + no ownership of tools" direction and that's the big problem which we have to fight by continuing to make our own stuff