nicky flowers

I’m not a serial hater, I’m a ‘correspondent with a beat’ (cyberstalking a pretty small and sedate social media alternative)

it’s literally a call out post lol

on the bright side i tried to check it out to see if i should be worried and pillowfort just straight up didn't work lol

damn that sounds good as hell i might make a big sandwich today

sure do appreciate a discussion about race being treated like a zoo

we do make ourselves a sandwich we really enjoy, now and again. we have written entire threads about our sandwich.

i'm really not sure what the value is when everyone's timeline is way different (I am guessing this person has #cohost meta saved or something and just looks at that). I wasn't super online the last week but barely saw these posts. The site wasn't exploding with drama because there are way too many people for everyone to be talking about anything. Truly a site where I largely don't even see friends-of-friends posts that often

after looking into this, and seeing like secondary reactions and drama about it I'm just really fucking exhausted. I understand being Mad About Websites, I do. I even understand having to just point at something that makes you mad and venting about it. but like, hanging out in a place you don't like over a long period so you can systematically document what everyone there does is not fucking healthy. Please Move Along and post on the websites you actually like and leave everybody else alone

(for clarity this isn't aimed at the people I've seen critiquing whiteness on the site, a discussion I emphatically think we should make room for and that, if we can have it constructively, will make the site a better place)