nicky

i'm literally nicky

musician, image maker, BBS sysop, game boy user, pretend meteorologist, baseball watcher...

Was (@)yiffpolice on twitter (RIP 2013-2023)
Will always be @nicky from cohost (2022-infinity)


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i do stream sometimes, it's fun!
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i even make games WOW!
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e-mail, why not!
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I mean yeah the thing about CBT is that it's inherently impossible to observe the mechanism of action: you cannot observe someone else's thoughts. The only thing you can measure with any level of accuracy is behavior, and even then only if you have very robust categorization of behaviors. It also doesn't take into account that material conditions have changed A LOT since 1977 and what may have worked then might not work now.

the way i've best had it put is that CBT is very good at dealing with irrational concerns (social anxiety, old events that don't really have bearing on the present) but very bad at dealing with rational concerns (disability limiting societal participation, being in a bad environment)

therapy in general is really bad at dealing with rational depression! best i ever got was "yeah that sucks, damn. do you want some drugs to maybe feel better enough to try harder to get lucky maybe"

i could never be a therapist, i know too much and it would destroy me

The problem I've had with CBT is that it does work well on me, but the therapists I find always want to decide for me what my priorities are, and we end up working on something that I'm not motivated to do the exercises for, instead of working on the thing that I came for!!

Also they always spent the first two-three sessions trying to explain my brain to me, which I'm sure is helpful for people with bad introspection skills and a brain that behaves in expected ways, but I'm the opposite of these things so this part is tiring