ninecoffees

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To be fair, I told her right off the bat that I didn't care about pitch. It is by far the worst indicator of a 'passing' voice. There were plenty of women who spoke beautifully with pitches far lower than mine--

I'M TALKING ABOUT THE MOMMY VOICE BTW 😏

--and after five months of self-teaching on YouTube, I had well and truly stagnated. Of course, she understood that pitch wasn't, and has never been, the main point of voice feminization. If she did not, I would have found someone else.

Another thing my voice therapist seized upon--and that I confessed rather early--was my completely inability to hold any sort of consistent accent. I am some rather violent mix of American and English accent with tinges of Chinese in between. Despite living in New Zealand for most of my life, no amount of NZ accent ever penetrated my voice because, well, immigrants tend to hang out with other immigrants. The common twitter joke that learning from Trans Voice Lessons on Youtube will give you a Cali girl accent was slowly becoming true for me.

We'll fix your consistency with your intonation as well.

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If anyone reading this has had a voice coach in the past, I would love if you were willing to share how many sessions it took before you were satisfied/felt confident in continuing your own training. Obviously, this differs between everyone, but I mostly want a rough idea so I can budget plan for the future.


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in reply to @ninecoffees's post:

Nice! I'm glad you've started seeing a speech therapist. Mine helped me a lot.

I think I saw her for about a year before I was happier with my voice—though we started spacing out our sessions more as time went on, as the focus shifted to practicing and building confidence. Overall it took about ten sessions.

I think it took about 2 months of going consistently (so like 6-8ish? sessions) before I was really comfortable/happy with it. I do still see mine at a lower pace to practice specific things like singing and such, but much less frequently than before

thanks, I'm hearing a lot of people tend to do early 'bursts' of sessions in the beginning because apparently when you start, there's so much to fix that frequent sessions is better to establish consistency and practice before you can slowly drop off

Yeah that was the goal for me for sure, trying to get things to a good baseline was the first priority and I did once a week during that initial timeframe. Overtime you can absolutely drop off and still be in a great place

congratulations!thank you for sharing this with us.
I'm a nerd so I like seeing numbers and units. (I'm also cis so my experience of voice training is limited to 'big dog little dog' shibboleths- i kinda knew there was more to voice training than just pitch, but I didn't know what it was specifically!)

I hope you have lots of success and the process is as fun as is possible!

I just had my first speech therapist session yesterday, and I've done zero self-teaching (heard about the Cali girl accent thing and went nope). I'm actually starting with some simple pitch exercises and plan to eventually move on to other aspects, but my next session is 3 weeks away. My therapist has limited availability.
I hope the training goes well for you and you get the sexy voice you're after!