Nini was here

I had a rant, deleted it, didn't like how it felt. Did meanwhile find something else and while it isn't about Cohost it is about FOSS and the Fediverse generally defined and how its culture, while noble and positive, also ignores how much effort I'm looking to put in to get what I want from something (it's low) and how user hostile it tends to be in service of not being like the others (very high).