i like fae as a vibe/mode of self identification. i'm Not human, i'm not from this world, i am Otherworldly, a strange autistic animal, but at the same time i don't particularly have any animosity towards my human-looking form. lots of fae, after all, look "human" even when they aren't.
the other thing about being fae is the confidence in self-beauty
i am inherently uncanny and beautiful, and more than that, i'm otherworldly uncanny and beautiful, and it is my inhumanity that makes me uncanny and beautiful