Visited someone who was sitting shiva tonight and right before we started davening we all agreed that we should have a mechitzah in case anyone with a strong preference showed up (none of us really minded, but it was decided in the way things sometimes are where while the men talked about whether or not to set something up all the women just quietly left to the other room to save them from having to ask us to leave lol)
So we were all in the kitchen while the men were in the living room (and a nonbinary person stood on the stairs between the two) but we'd earlier brought all the chairs into the living room from the kitchen, and davening started before anyone thought to run back and grab some 🤦♀️
So I just had to daven all of maariv and musaf while standing, and then I biked twenty minutes back home. Ugggggh I'm tired 🥴
