I think an essay could be written about the fact that I would absolutely never even think of judging someone for wearing/wanting a packer and yet the thought of buying prosthetic breasts evokes thoughts of crossdressing sissy fetishists and just in general what Ray Blanchard would think. Why is striving for masculine congruence seen as not just normal but expected, while striving for feminine congruence is AGP kink perverted freak shit. Not just that but the association is so strong that I, a trans woman, feel it to the point of not being able to do what I need to do to feel safe and comfortable. Even wearing contouring makeup to keep from being assaulted feels degenerate lol. Maybe it's just me lmao maybe my brain is fucked by figuring out my gender alone / on 4chan in Texas, but I don't think so, this feels wider than that.
