
NB trans gal, they/she. Certified dork and one half of @UsWeirdos. Borgir Mio by Grey.
god this is so real (and lame that paypal won't fucking figure this shit out)
When it was hard to get masks I was sewing and delivering them to some friends.
I went to one friend's house and her dad was outside. I didn't know her super well at the time, but I was pretty certain she wasn't out to her family. Some wires in my brain briefly got reconnected and I remembered her dead name from her PayPal to ask her dad if he could take the mask to her. Then forgot that name immediately after
yikes what a close call. glad to hear it went okay and thanks for helping people get masks it made such a big difference back then. i have a friend who i've seen her dead name so many times and yet if i try to recall it i usually get the first name wrong. i just hope it never sticks.
iirc you cam set up a business account and it lets u change name
For reallll I specifically made a business account to avoid this but im pretty sure the people who commission me can still see my email address which contains my dead name :((